DIVIDED INTEREST
Personally I have watched so many parents making this mistake of having unequal agendas; the best way a kid or kids could be brought up properly is for parents to be united in whatever they do that relate to their children, most especially in their (the children) presence. Where a father is correcting a child for wrongdoing and the mother is rebuking him for it vise versa, the child would tend to think that the parent that does the correcting hates him or her but where a mother or a father is trying to set the child on the right path and the other parent is supportive in action, deeds and verbal contribution the child would soon reason and grow up to be a better child to the happiness of the parents.
Sometimes parents even start serious fight between each other just because one tries to correct and the other probably feels the one that tries to correct is not doing it the right way or is doing it excessively and then serious quarrel commences in front of the children they are trying to guide. This type of attitude towards parenting is wrong, even if the parent that took the step to correct is not doing it properly he or she could be excused and taking behind the scene to trash out the issue. That way the children would not be miseducated .
Should a child grow up and realize that the parent that has always endorse wrong things he does was wrong such child would hate such a parent because so many things would have been to late to correct by then.
Please be wise in dealing with your children!
Personally I have watched so many parents making this mistake of having unequal agendas; the best way a kid or kids could be brought up properly is for parents to be united in whatever they do that relate to their children, most especially in their (the children) presence. Where a father is correcting a child for wrongdoing and the mother is rebuking him for it vise versa, the child would tend to think that the parent that does the correcting hates him or her but where a mother or a father is trying to set the child on the right path and the other parent is supportive in action, deeds and verbal contribution the child would soon reason and grow up to be a better child to the happiness of the parents.
Sometimes parents even start serious fight between each other just because one tries to correct and the other probably feels the one that tries to correct is not doing it the right way or is doing it excessively and then serious quarrel commences in front of the children they are trying to guide. This type of attitude towards parenting is wrong, even if the parent that took the step to correct is not doing it properly he or she could be excused and taking behind the scene to trash out the issue. That way the children would not be miseducated .
Should a child grow up and realize that the parent that has always endorse wrong things he does was wrong such child would hate such a parent because so many things would have been to late to correct by then.
Please be wise in dealing with your children!
Sometimes parents even start serious fight between each other just because one tries to correct and the other probably feels the one that tries to correct is not doing it the right way or is doing it excessively and then serious quarrel commences in front of the children they are trying to guide. This type of attitude towards parenting is wrong, even if the parent that took the step to correct is not doing it properly he or she could be excused and taking behind the scene to trash out the issue. That way the children would not be miseducated .
Should a child grow up and realize that the parent that has always endorse wrong things he does was wrong such child would hate such a parent because so many things would have been to late to correct by then.
Please be wise in dealing with your children!
Personally I have watched so many parents making this mistake of having unequal agendas; the best way a kid or kids could be brought up properly is for parents to be united in whatever they do that relate to their children, most especially in their (the children) presence. Where a father is correcting a child for wrongdoing and the mother is rebuking him for it vise versa, the child would tend to think that the parent that does the correcting hates him or her but where a mother or a father is trying to set the child on the right path and the other parent is supportive in action, deeds and verbal contribution the child would soon reason and grow up to be a better child to the happiness of the parents.
Sometimes parents even start serious fight between each other just because one tries to correct and the other probably feels the one that tries to correct is not doing it the right way or is doing it excessively and then serious quarrel commences in front of the children they are trying to guide. This type of attitude towards parenting is wrong, even if the parent that took the step to correct is not doing it properly he or she could be excused and taking behind the scene to trash out the issue. That way the children would not be miseducated .
Should a child grow up and realize that the parent that has always endorse wrong things he does was wrong such child would hate such a parent because so many things would have been to late to correct by then.
Please be wise in dealing with your children!
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