PARENTAL HAPPINESS
I HAVE SEEN SO MANY UNHAPPY PARENTS IN LIFE; MOTHERS WHO CARRY BABIES IN THEIR WOMBS FOR 9 MONTHS ONLY TO END UP SADDENED BY THE SAME CHILDREN IN THE END; FATHERS WHO WORK LIKE ELEPHANTS TO BRING UP THEIR CHILDREN ONLY TO BE IGNORED BY THESAME CHILDREN. WHY?
HERE ARE THE QUESTIONS THAT TORMENTS ME EACH TIME I SEE A SAD PARENT:
What could he or she have done wrong?
Where could he or she have gone wrong?
How could he or she have gone wrong?
HERE ARE THE QUESTIONS THAT TORMENTS ME EACH TIME I SEE A SAD PARENT:
What could he or she have done wrong?
Where could he or she have gone wrong?
How could he or she have gone wrong?
Here are 25 wrongs of parenting:
PARENTING WITHOUT PLAN
This is one aspect of parenting that I consider so very vital it wasn’t raining when Noah built the ark why would you have your kids before planning for their welfare, education and comfort. Parents who just produce kids just for production sake are very likely to end up sad because they might not be authoritative in things that are important to the development of such children thereby half-loosing the children. Do you want to have children that do not see you as a father or a mother just because you don’t have any plan in place for them before rushing into child bearing?
If you go around asking parents about their deepest regrets relating to parenting most of them would likely tell you they regret bearing six children instead of two or thereabout they could conveniently take care of. A lot of parents who ought to be enjoining their retirement already are still hustling to pay bills just because they did not plan ahead of time. A proverb says “a good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow”
Why is it so important to plan? It is important for you to set a parental goal which would have to do with the kind environment you want your children to grow up in, the standard of school you want them to attend and the investment that would cover every expenses, school fees, hospital bills and shelter. As a parent you would have less cause to worry when you already have a concrete plan for your children long time before you start producing them.
“Happy people plan actions, they don't plan results”
Dennis Wholey
This is one aspect of parenting that I consider so very vital it wasn’t raining when Noah built the ark why would you have your kids before planning for their welfare, education and comfort. Parents who just produce kids just for production sake are very likely to end up sad because they might not be authoritative in things that are important to the development of such children thereby half-loosing the children. Do you want to have children that do not see you as a father or a mother just because you don’t have any plan in place for them before rushing into child bearing?
If you go around asking parents about their deepest regrets relating to parenting most of them would likely tell you they regret bearing six children instead of two or thereabout they could conveniently take care of. A lot of parents who ought to be enjoining their retirement already are still hustling to pay bills just because they did not plan ahead of time. A proverb says “a good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow”
Why is it so important to plan? It is important for you to set a parental goal which would have to do with the kind environment you want your children to grow up in, the standard of school you want them to attend and the investment that would cover every expenses, school fees, hospital bills and shelter. As a parent you would have less cause to worry when you already have a concrete plan for your children long time before you start producing them.
“Happy people plan actions, they don't plan results”
Dennis Wholey
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