RAISING KIDS IN A WRONG ENVIRONMENT
Environment has serious impact on children upbringing you may disagree with me probably because a lot of great musicians, artists, actors, authors etc came from the most unimaginable crude environs but the truth is there is always something lost that could become very difficult to recover. Morals and values are taught at home and even if parents are very strict and children are equally doing all they could to be good kids environmental ills could persistently stand in the way of their positive thinking. Most seemingly successful people spend most of their life jumping out of one trouble into another. Why? why not? they grew up in troubles, with troubles, around troubles - troubles everywhere and hence their life is incomplete without this troubles , At times it is hard blows received from avoidable troubles that bring them to an end at their peak when their society their parents and their world needed them most. Tell where is parental happiness in this?
While challenges build us and toughen us against the storms of live, exposure to certain challenges earlier in life hardened children’s unnecessarily and blind them against reason. Children who are constantly bullied by neighbourhood bullies soon become so insecure and could either become bullies too or grow up hating almost everyone around them.
A low cost apartment in a peaceful surrounding would be a good place to establish your family rather than a palace in a hellish environment. Though a lot of people are living in poverty today, in my opinion, it is better not to have kids at all rather than raise them the wrong way. Yes I know you would say that God is the one that take care of children but he also employed you as a caretaker to ensure the are well brought up; neither as over spoilt brats nor as the abused and uncared for.
Children brought up in an unsafe environment become a danger to their society and likewise their parents. I am emphasizing on this environment issue because I don’t want all your years of labour to end in pain and regrets. So would you not rather move your family to a secure place today? Give it all you can today and you will get back happiness and peace of mind in the end.
Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it. ~Haim Ginott www.quotegarden.com/parents.html
Environment has serious impact on children upbringing you may disagree with me probably because a lot of great musicians, artists, actors, authors etc came from the most unimaginable crude environs but the truth is there is always something lost that could become very difficult to recover. Morals and values are taught at home and even if parents are very strict and children are equally doing all they could to be good kids environmental ills could persistently stand in the way of their positive thinking. Most seemingly successful people spend most of their life jumping out of one trouble into another. Why? why not? they grew up in troubles, with troubles, around troubles - troubles everywhere and hence their life is incomplete without this troubles , At times it is hard blows received from avoidable troubles that bring them to an end at their peak when their society their parents and their world needed them most. Tell where is parental happiness in this?
While challenges build us and toughen us against the storms of live, exposure to certain challenges earlier in life hardened children’s unnecessarily and blind them against reason. Children who are constantly bullied by neighbourhood bullies soon become so insecure and could either become bullies too or grow up hating almost everyone around them.
A low cost apartment in a peaceful surrounding would be a good place to establish your family rather than a palace in a hellish environment. Though a lot of people are living in poverty today, in my opinion, it is better not to have kids at all rather than raise them the wrong way. Yes I know you would say that God is the one that take care of children but he also employed you as a caretaker to ensure the are well brought up; neither as over spoilt brats nor as the abused and uncared for.
Children brought up in an unsafe environment become a danger to their society and likewise their parents. I am emphasizing on this environment issue because I don’t want all your years of labour to end in pain and regrets. So would you not rather move your family to a secure place today? Give it all you can today and you will get back happiness and peace of mind in the end.
Parents often talk about the younger generation as if they didn't have anything to do with it. ~Haim Ginott www.quotegarden.com/parents.html
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